| Whether you have hired an attorney to represent you | | | | Even if you deny the charges and the court orders |
| or you are In Pro Per (self represented), nothing can | | | | drug testing, make sure you get it on your terms. Your |
| destroy your case like false allegations. No matter | | | | terms are, random checks twice a month, paid by the |
| what allegation it is, you have just gone on the | | | | ex. Here's the fun part, while it is a hassle to go twice |
| defensive instead of being on the offensive. No matter | | | | a month, it establishes that you were and are truthful |
| what the answer, there is no good answer to the | | | | about not having a habit. It also establishes that your |
| question "Are you still using drugs?". You are now in a | | | | ex is a liar. Oh yeah, and they not only asked to be |
| completely defensive posture, just like the ex wanted | | | | proven a liar, they are paying for the privilege. |
| you. Or are you? | | | | What you agreed to was a program to discredit your |
| Just like a game of chess, you sometimes have to | | | | ex. Here's the truly beautiful thing, you see, it's a court |
| sacrifice a small piece to win the game. Well, the ex | | | | order. They must continue to pay $120 twice a month, |
| may have just made the move and taken the small | | | | almost $3000/yr to prove they are a liar and you are |
| piece. You would be surprised at how quickly this one | | | | truthful. The drug test facility must test you because it |
| can be flipped and how it's done. While you may at | | | | is a court order. The ex must pay them, because it is |
| first think what a horrendous thing to pull (and it is), | | | | court ordered. In order for this expensive reminder of |
| focus on the long run. | | | | their lies to stop, they must beg the court to stop. |
| Allegations of Drug Abuse and using Illegal substances: | | | | Now seriously, isn't this a whole lot more fun now? |
| The first thing I want you to know is that time is your | | | | You are now the compliant law abiding citizen and |
| ally. And if time is your ally, it is your ex's enemy. With | | | | they are the liar who would go to any length to get |
| each passing day, the truth becomes clearer and | | | | their way, and you have clinical proof! |
| clearer. | | | | |