How to Prepare Your Children For Life

My experience around Africa and in some parts of thesocieties from us.
world is that nowadays nobody is teaching our childrenThey should be prepared to know that from age 12 or
our ways. There are no conscious efforts to have ouras soon as is practicable, they should be start making
children get the right type of education that woulda living and start saving for their education and other
ensure that they have a chance to survive, not to talkvoluntary services or for supporting the family. This is
of thriving. We have even lost the only basic elementirrespective of the wealth or riches already existing in
that is part of the colonially bequeathed education -the family.
integrity. What we are concerned about today is toThey should be taught the importance of reading and
get our children to pass examinations and get paperwriting down their experiences, maintaining journals of
qualification.all their activities, experiences, feelings, thoughts and
For this purpose, parents have bought certificates forevents in the life of their family and the community.
their children; they have arranged to have other peopleThey should be taught very early in life to love
write examinations for their children. The latest instudying the scriptures and other motivational books so
vogue now is to arrange and pay money tothat they can gain wisdom required for relationships,
unscrupulous school teachers and other specialassociations, team building, networking etc, required for
classes to arrange for "special centres" for theira wholesome community living in this day and age. The
children to write examinations where answers areopportunities are limitless.
written down for them on the board.Money is a critical element in human interaction. Money
The above is the reason we have universityis used to create wealth. It is surprising that our people
graduates who are armed robbers and kidnappersspend between 12 and 16 and sometimes 20 years in
because they cannot afford to survive in the realschools and are not taught a single thing about how to
world as soon as they left schools. In most Africancreate or accumulate wealth. As a result, our people
cities today, there is no chance of survival for thosecome into living and do nothing except to "pursue
who had only secondary school education. This ismoney". This is the bane of our society today. This is
because; they merely got poor reading and writing skillswhy our children are taking to crime as a sign that
for the period they spent in schools.they are smart. This is why 'our leaders' or those who
To survive in this world today, and this is would bemasquerade as such only loot the treasury. It is all
more complex tomorrow, we need life skills educationbecause they never learned how to create or
and personal development. While life skills wouldaccumulate wealth. They think wealth could be stolen.
ensure that we have the capacity to provide serviceBeing fools, they perish with the money they looted
to others and get paid doing so, personal developmentfrom the public treasury and the treasury of their
would ensure that our mind and heart and mentalorganizations.
faculties are developed to be able to think and createWith life skills education and personal development, we
products, programmes, ideas and services that wouldwould engender an evolutionary trend that would
enhance the quality of our lives.make this world answer the end of its calling and
What is being advocated here is that from secondaryglorify the name of God, our Creator.
school level or as early as they can handle it, ourPeople in our own generation and the current
children should be thought how to produce food, evengeneration have lost it. But we can ensure that our
if you are living in the cities this can still be thought withchildren do not lose it also by providing these two
backyard gardens or hanging plants in baskets andtypes of education for them.
pots right inside your rooms or by the wall. They shouldWhat do you think? Do you have ideas and strategies
be thought how and why to provide service to otherto achieve this idea?
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